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Marlojong sebelum Perkawinan: Kiat Adat Menghadapi Wali ‘Aḍal di Ranah Batahan, Pasaman Barat

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Title Marlojong sebelum Perkawinan: Kiat Adat Menghadapi Wali ‘Aḍal di Ranah Batahan, Pasaman Barat
 
Creator Salma, Salma
Syahril, Syahril
 
Subject marriage; guardian’s reluctant; wali ’aḍal; tradition; marlojong; khitbah
 
Description This article aims to analyze and explore the tradition of marlojong before marriage in Ranah Batahan, West Pasaman. Marlojong is the act of a couple who is not approved by their parent (wali) for certain reasons by running to the house of the elder of custom (tetua adat) or a respected family. The elopement could reduce the dignity of women and their parents. So, it becomes a reason for the traditional elders to call them. The data was collected by observation and in-depth interviews with couples who did marlojong, parents of each couple, other nuclear families, traditional elders, KUA officials and local scholars. The data was analyzed by reduction, display and verification. The results showed that the meaning of marlojong was actually not only a couple who fled to the house of the traditional elders but also the efforts to overcome the guardian's reluctance (wali ‘aḍal) and reduce the parobanan (brideprice). Therefore, the causes of marlojong were overcoming the reluctant of parents and the high level of brideprice. On one side, the marlojong was seen as negative but on the other hand, it became a customary way to resolve the guardian’s reluctance (wali ‘aḍal) without having to go to a religious court.
 
Publisher Faculty of Sharia and Law, Universitas Islam Negeri (UIN) Walisongo Semarang
 
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Date 2019-04-08
 
Type info:eu-repo/semantics/article
info:eu-repo/semantics/publishedVersion
Peer-reviewed Article
 
Format application/pdf
 
Identifier https://journal.walisongo.ac.id/index.php/ahkam/article/view/3256
10.21580/ahkam.2019.29.1.3256
 
Source Al-Ahkam; Volume 29, Nomor 1, April 2019; 45-66
2502-3209
0854-4603
 
Language eng
 
Relation https://journal.walisongo.ac.id/index.php/ahkam/article/view/3256/1999
 
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